It's important to know that the free psychic chat rooms are not for receiving free readings. The free chat rooms are for you to get to know the psychics before you invite them for a private reading. But that being said, it is totally possible to get a free answer or free reading during a free chat. There are many psychics who offer totally free psychic answers on a regular basis. 
Every person that comes into our lives is there in order to help us to evolve. Relationships are like mirrors, and sometimes the negative things that people bring into our lives teach us the greatest lessons. That is not to say you deserve to be treated badly or that it is good for people to be disrespectful or rude. But if someone is constantly pushing your buttons, maybe the lesson for you to learn is how to gently hold your boundaries. It is a journey to sort out the difference between soul mates, past life relationships, and addictive partnerships. By loving yourself and seeing others as a mirror of yourself and what you need to learn, you will grow into a person ready for true love.
My first experience with a psychic happened while I was visiting a childhood friend at college. I remember entering his little shop and being taken to a back room. The psychic said that it looked like I had two love interests. He said that I needed to make a decision between the two of them, and he emphasized over and over again that I had the power to choose. That one came completely out of the blue. I had already been dating my current boyfriend for a few months by that time, and I felt very committed to him. It was only months later that I realized I was still carrying a lot of emotional trauma from a previous abusive relationship. I thought I’d gotten over it and moved on, but I hadn’t, and it was hanging like a cloud over my life and my relationship with myself and with other people. I hadn’t let go yet. I realized that I needed to take action on it somehow, that I had that power. So I started working with a therapist.